Non-alcoholic cocktails to give you holiday cheer without the buzz

The holiday season comes with plenty of festivities every year — many of which involve alcohol.

“I think during the holidays, there are so many parties and dinners and gatherings for friends and family so obviously alcohol is everywhere,” says Hilary Sheinbaum, author of “The Dry Challenge: How to Lose the Booze for Dry January, Sober October, and Any Other Alcohol-Free Month.”

For whatever reason you or your friends choose not to consume alcohol (and, really, whose business is it anyway?), it’s nice to have drink options other than soda at holiday get togethers.

So, if you’re not drinking, looking to cut back or just don’t feel like having alcohol there are plenty of cocktails that can satisfy the festive-cup-quota without the buzz.

USA TODAY has gathered a few fun, holiday-themed NA cocktails that you can add to your holiday spread.

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Holiday gone sour

Holiday gone sour

Sheinbaum has a few cocktails of her own up her sleeve this holiday season. One includes sparkling water sweetened with simple syrup, lime juice and rosemary that sounds oh-so-refreshing for holiday functions.

Ingredients:

  • 12 ounces of water or sparkling water
  • .5 ounces of simple syrup
  • 2 ounces of lime juice
  • Ice
  • Rosemary sprigs (for garnish)

Instructions:

  1. Pour simple syrup into water, stir.
  2. Pour lime juice into the simple syrup water mixture, stir.
  3. Pour contents into a rock glass over ice.
  4. Garnish with rosemary sprigs.
  5. Enjoy!

Makes: 1 NA cocktail.

Sangria sweaters

Sangria sweaters

This recipe is fruity and fun and makes a few drinks.

Ingredients:

  • 16 ounces of sparkling white grape juice
  • 16 ounces ginger beer
  • Ice
  • Choice of garnishes, including:
    • 1/4 pineapple, peeled, cut into wedges
    • 1/2 small orange, cut into wedges
    • 1 passionfruit, quartered
    • 1/2 cup fresh mint leaves
    • Pomegranate seeds
    • Strawberries, sliced
    • Red and White grapes
    • Apple slices

Instructions:

  1. Pour equal amounts of juice and ginger beer in a pitcher.
  2. Stir.
  3. Serve over ice in festive glassware (or in a wine glass).
  4. Top with your choice of garnishes.
  5. Steer back and enjoy!

Makes: 4 NA cocktails.

Lyre’s Apertif

Lyre's Apertif

Mixer brand Fever Tree shared this NA cocktail recipe with USA TODAY from its Fever-Tree Easy Mixing Recipe Book.

Ingredients:

  • 2 ounces of Lyre’s Apéritif Dry
  • 6.8 ounces Fever-Tree Mediterranean Tonic Water​
  • 3 lemon wedges
  • Thyme sprigs, for garnish​

​Instructions:

  1. Pour the Lyre’s Apéritif Dry into a highball glass filled with ice cubes.
  2. Squeeze over and then drop in the lemon wedges.
  3. Top off with the tonic water.
  4. Garnish with a thyme sprig.

Makes: 1 NA cocktail.

Hot Non-Ginger Toddy

Hot Non-Ginger Toddy

Fever Tree shared a hot cocktail to warm party-attendees featuring hot apple cider, honey and ginger beer.

Ingredients:

  • 4 ounces of hot apple cider
  • .5 ounces of honey
  • 1 ounce of freshly squeezed lemon juice
  • Top with Fever-Tree ginger beer (or ginger beer of your choice)
  • Garnish with dusted apple slices and cinnamon stick

Instructions:

  1. Combine Hot cider, lemon juice and honey syrup in the mug.
  2. Top with Fever-Tree Ginger Beer.
  3. Garnish with an apple fan & cinnamon stick.

Makes: 1 NA cocktail.

The Lyre & The Blood Orange

The Lyre & The Blood Orange

Fever-Tree shared another recipe for “The Lyre & The Blood Orange” crafted by Rhett Hornberger of La Cuevita in Los Angeles.

Ingredients:

  • 1.5 ounces of Lyre’s AM Whiskey
  • .75 ounces of lemon juice
  • .75 ounces Liquid Alchemist Blood Orange Syrup
  • Fever-Tree’s Blood Orange Ginger Beer

Instructions:

  1. Shake ingredients in a shaker.
  2. Pour over ice in a Collins glass.
  3. Top with Fever-Tree’s Blood Orange Ginger Beer.
  4. Garnish with a blood orange half wheel.

Makes: 1 NA cocktail.

Mulled Jukes 6

Mulled Jukes 6

Jukes Cordialities, which sells apple cider-vinegar based non-alcoholic beverages that are meant to taste similar to wine, provided a cocktail made with Jukes 6, to USA TODAY.

Jukes 6 has a blackcurrant and blackberry base combined with layers of other red fruits including strawberries, plums and raspberries. When mixed with hot water and orange, the drink is meant to be sipped like a mulled wine.

Ingredients:

  • .5 ounces of Jukes 6, approximately half the bottle
  • 8 ounces of hot water
  • 1 slice of fresh or dried orange, for garnish

Instructions:

  1. Pour half a bottle of Jukes 6 – The Dark Red – into your favorite mug.
  2. Top with hot water.
  3. Garnish with a slice of fresh or dried orange and enjoy!

Makes: 1 NA cocktail.

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Where to go out for dessert in Charlotte, NC

Open Rice's Bubble Waffles are made from a sweet batter, then filled with toppings and your choice of ice cream.

Open Rice’s Bubble Waffles are made from a sweet batter, then filled with toppings and your choice of ice cream.

Picture this: It’s date night and you’ve gone out to dinner, but you don’t want the night to end. You’re not looking to hit up the Charlotte bar or brewery scene, either. The easy solution: It’s time to go out for dessert.

It’s sometimes trickier than it sounds. Sure, you can probably stop in at almost any big chain restaurant and order something that will taste just fine. But that’s not your style, is it?

We’ve curated a list of some of our favorite local and North Carolina-based chain restaurants with great desserts that are open late-ish. You can use this list of go-to date night dessert spots to impress your companion with creative options for ice cream, chocolate creations and bakery treats without spending a lot of time hunting down a second reservation.

Charlotte’s 10 best places to get dessert are:

Amelie’s French Bakery & Cafe

Location: 136 E 36th St, Charlotte, NC 28205

Location: 7715 Pineville-Matthews Rd #34b, Charlotte, NC 28226

Location: 157 E Main St, Rock Hill, SC 29730

Location: 4321 Park Rd, Charlotte, NC 28209

Menu

What to know: There’s wine and beer available to pair with your dessert, along with a variety of coffee and tea options. Hours vary by location, but the flagship NoDa spot is open until 10 pm on weeknights and midnight Saturdays and Sundays.

What to order: Amelie’s classic salted caramel brownie ($5.30) and a 16 ounce S’more Latte ($5.20).

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Amelie’s salted caramel brownie. Wendy Yang

Crave

Location: 500 West 5th Street, Suite 120, Charlotte, NC 28202

Menu

What to know: You’ve got to be 21+ to enter this upscale dessert and drinks bar — and there’s other food, too. It’s open late nights (until midnight on weekdays and 1 am on Saturdays), and don’t come looking scruffy (no athletic wear, ball caps or excessively casual attire). Open until midnight Sundays and Tuesdays through Thursdays, and until 1 am Fridays and Saturdays.

What to order: The S’mores Platter, featuring Hershey’s milk chocolate, graham crackers, marshmallows and a mini fire pit ($16).

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Crave Dessert Bar’s S’Mores Platter. ROBERT LAHSER [email protected]

Day and Night Cereal Bars

Location: 127 Brevard Court, Charlotte, NC 28202

Menu

What to know: Day and Night Cereal Bar offers pre-made cereal bowls and shakes but also encourages customers to get creative. (You might even learn something new about your date.) It’s open until 10 pm Mondays through Saturdays and 6 pm on Sundays.

What to order: A Mucha Lucha bowl, which is Cinnamon Toast Crunch and whipped cream, topped with churro cereal and buttery cinnamon roll sprinkles ($8, or $10 as a shake.)

Day and Night Exotic Cereal Bar
Day and Night Exotic Cereal Bar serves cereal bowls and cereal milkshakes. Provided

Insomnia Cookies

Location: 210 E. Trade Street, #B-224, Charlotte, NC, 28202

Location: 2116 Hawkins Street, Suite 103, Charlotte, NC, 28203

Location: 9211 N Tryon Street, Space 4, Charlotte, NC, 28262

Menu

What to know: Insomnia Cookies is built around the idea that you’re going to want a cookies-and-milk nightcap. It’s open at multiple locations until midnight Sundays through Wednesdays and 1 am Thursdays through Saturdays — and you can even get delivery.

What to order: Just go ahead and pick out a dozen, with various flavors ($22).

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Insomnia Cookies. Insomnia Cookies

Krispy Kreme

Locations: Multiple locations

Menu

What to know: Of course, you’ll find Krispy Kreme’s classic donuts, but now you’ll also find ice cream and shakes, too. Hours vary by location, but the South End location that’s home to the Krispy Kreme Innovation Center is open everyday until 10 pm

What to order: A Cookies and Kreme shake ($4.99.)

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Krispy Kreme serves seven hand-spun shakes, including Cookies and Kreme and Birthday Batter. Krispy Kreme

Open Rice

Location: 9882 Rea Road Suite F, Charlotte, NC, 28277

Menu

What to know: There’s a hefty selection of boba drinks to satisfy your sweet tooth at Open Rice, a fast-casual Asian restaurant that focuses on Hong Kong-style Chinese food. It’s open until 9 pm on weeknights and 9:30 pm on Fridays and Saturdays.

What to order: The Bubble Waffles. Choose your toppings, drizzles and one scoop of ice cream, with choices including chocolate, vanilla, cookies and cream, and green tea (price varies, depending on toppings).

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Open Rice’s Bubble Waffles are made from a sweet batter, then filled with toppings and your choice of ice cream. Courtesy of Open Rice

Sip Co.

Location: 50 Branchview Drive NE, Concord, NC 28025

Location: 9055 Carolina Lily Ln, Charlotte, NC 28262

Menu

What to know: Sip Co., a drink and snack spot where you can customize your beverages, is open until 10 pm Monday through Saturday.

What to order: A pink sugar cookie ($2.75) to pair

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Woman Leaves Date After Man Only Bought Her One Drink

If you are a woman or know a woman, you’ve most likely said or heard the proclamation, “I’m done with men.”

We’ve all had our fair share of disastrous dates and relationships.

However, one woman on TikTok is receiving mixed reactions to reveal the reason that she is “done with men.”

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The woman claimed to be “done with men” after her date only bought her one drink.

In a TikTok video that has been viewed over 1 million times, Taisa Taderera (@taisataderao1) shares her friend’s response after returning from a date.

When asked how the date went, the friend replies that she is, “done with men,” while leaning her head against the wall, visibly frustrated.

“I’m so done with men, they’re disgusting,” she continues while taking a moment to collect herself and sigh loudly.

Taderera explains that her friend’s date only bought her one drink for the entirety of their two-hour date.

“Like look at me!” the friend says, gesturing to her white dress. “Look at me, take me to dinner, like wine and dine, you know what I’m saying?”

“Like, don’t try to get all this information out of me over one drink that you don’t want to pay for,” she continues to vent. “I’m looking this great, and I don’t know, I just can’t with them, they just don’t get it, I can’t and don’t have time for them anymore.”

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“Boys, do better on dates, do better,” Taderera said behind the camera.

The friend then makes the suggestion that they start reviewing the men they date to help them improve their current skills.

“Because at the end of the day, they’d be doing the bare minimum for wanting to be praised,” the friend added.

Some TikTok users agreed with Taderera and her friend.

“She’s so stunning and getting treated like this. Men should be embarrassed,” one user commented.

“It’s honestly embarrassing for ME to look this good on a date with a man who says so little,” another user wrote.

“She looks amazing, that’s a, I dressed up for an amazing night, kinda date,” another user added.

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However, other TikTok users believed that one drink was appropriate for a first date.

“Actually, a drink on the first date is perfect,” one user wrote. “When multi-dating, the first date is a scan. Then you select a second date that is a wine and dine with the worthy ones.”

“I get it but I think he was trying to get to know you before wine and dine. It’s a tough world out there, most of us are broke. You look fire though,” another user shared.

Others believe that a friend should not expect special treatment simply based on how she was dressed.

“Are you saying the guy wasn’t looking great? How is your look supposed to be the only indicator of how to treat you?” one user commented.

“Why does he have to pay for you? Why is your time so much more valuable than his?” another user wrote.

“Men are the prize. You earn the ring darling,” one user expressed.

The question of what a first date should entail and who should pay is a divisive topic among many people, as this video proves.

Hopefully, both Taderera’s friend and her date can communicate and aim for a better second date so she can have time to rethink her “done with men” decision.

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Megan Quinn is a writer at YourTango who covers entertainment and news, self, love, and relationships.

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