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Carolyn Hax: Restaurants and friends’ little kids don’t mix

Posted on09/07/202230/11/2022AuthorAuthor

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Dear Caroline: When I invite my friends who have babies or toddlers to go out to a restaurant, how can I politely request they not bring their children?

Adult-Only: This isn’t a polite-request situation. This is a conversation situation, where you discuss the valid issues that arise when needy, screamy little people join your previously adults-only club.

You prefer completing your sentences. Totally fair. There’s a reason virtually every parent of small children I’ve ever known feels as starved for that as you do.

Your friends prefer to avoid sitter hassles and (I’m guessing) want to have their friends be part of their children’s lives. Maybe not as best-ever honorary aunties/uncles, though that can happen — but there’s as much value as possible: The parents get to model friendship for their kids. The kids get a community and adult presence beyond their parents. The non-kidded friends get some level of inclusion in their parent-friends’ family experience, which, no way around it, is a huge part of them now. Many become like family, or at least learn what it’s like when a kid steals your heart.

These parent-friends also have (again, guessing) logistical challenges. Even when you have a full agreement on just-adults restaurant outings, that doesn’t guarantee that they will have full staffing or funding for one. Child care is sometimes expensive, often scarce (especially now), doesn’t always preempt reservation-busting departure-time tantrums and occasional calls in sickness.

So, you talk — mindfully this is their child, not their Chia Pet. “What’s your take on kids vs. no kids when we go to restaurants? Does the type of restaurant matter? I don’t want to assume anything.” The way your friends respond will signal your room to maneuver.

Assuming you even want it. Some would rather lose the friends than rally for their kids, and if that’s you, then you might as well own it.

But keeper friends are honest speakers and attentive listeners, and they’re willing partners in the mutual give-and-take that changing lives require. They involve and evolve. Both parties.

Bonus: When both have proved over time their willingness to put the friendship’s interests above their own sometimes, it’s easier for one of them to say inoffensively, “Whoo, I need a night with adults.”

Tell us: What’s your favorite Carolyn Hax holiday column?

Dear Caroline: I’m in love with someone. The feelings are not reciprocated.

I never expected to feel this way again (I’m in my mid-70s), to carry such sadness for something that cannot be.

I can’t seem to get over my feelings, despite the reality I accept — intellectually.

I’m taking steps to help myself, but I still feel emotionally stuck. Suggestions short of going into therapy? I am angry with myself and sad.

Anonymous: It’s like asking a genie to make us feel young again, and getting awkwardness, heartbreak and zits.

I understand why you’re gutted: Loss is loss, and it’s awful. I’m sorry. Every instance of not being loved back leaves a scar, for me at least.

But your anger I don’t understand. You care! Affirmed life! Took a chance. Be proud of your gutted, stuck self.

Might as well. Because all you’ve got is the power of your mind over this matter — and some self-love is a low-risk, high-yield start. Your heart is hopeful and brave, and let no one second-guess that, least of all you.

You never expected this feeling “again,” meaning you’ve felt this before and recovered enough to achieve compliance. Okay then. You still have every mental tool you use whenever (mine: distraction, self-care, time, fresh air), plus what you’ve learned since. Trust it. Be open to therapy, unless you live on the moon — and maybe to love again, too.

50 notable new Connecticut restaurants that opened in 2022

Posted on08/07/202230/11/2022Author

Spaghetti Boia at the new Cugine’s Italian in Stamford’s South End.

Brian A. Pounds/Hearst Connecticut Media

John and Morgan Nealon opened Cugine’s June 10 in the Harbor Point district, with what they call “alluring, well-plated Italian cuisine,” refined cocktails and an extensive wine list. The new upscale restaurant is next door to Taco Daddy, their casual and playful spot for tacos and whimsical drinks, but they’re looking forward to introducing something entirely different, they say.

Chef Rick O’Connor brings experience from Michelin-starred Marea in New York City, where he became proficient in crafting crudos. He brings that expertise to Cugine’s, with plates like tuna with shaved frozen foie gras and torched pickled strawberries, uni and anchovy butter on brioche toast and bay scallop ceviche with watermelon and mint.

Other shareable plates include meatballs, steamed clams with Calabrian chili butter, crostini with whipped ricotta and roasted grapes and fried calamari. Vegetable-forward dishes include shaved raw and grilled zucchini with mint salsa verde, mixed mushrooms with garlic and thyme, and Brussels sprouts with honey agrodolce and mint.

A variety of fresh, housemade pastas range from simply-prepared ricotta cavatelli pesto and spaghetti boia with tomatoes to wild boar gnocchi, baby octopus puttanesca and lumache with bay scallops, zucchini and guanciale. An entree of brick chicken tagliata features arugula salad with shaved parmesan, and petite shoulder tenderloin is served with potato-fontina croquettes, grilled lettuce, red wine jus and cauliflower puree. Grilled langoustines are paired with a fennel and citrus salad.

121 Towne Street, 203-276-9266, @cuginesitalian.

Restaurants Boost Rewards for Price-Wary Consumers

Posted on05/07/202230/11/2022Author

As restaurants try to prevent inflation-concerned consumers from trading down, many brands are becoming more aggressive in their rewards and deal offers in an effort to keep diners coming back.

“With some of the macroeconomic trends ahead, I think it would make sense if the rewards programs started to become more generous, and more restaurants are participating in them,” Or’el Anbar, director of analytics at fast-casual chain Just Salad, told PYMNTS in an interview. “Because it’s easy to roll out to a lot of point-of-sale systems and use the technology restaurants already have in place to now offer reward functionality, and customers are going to be looking for value.”

The salad chain, for its part, announced the launch of its new “Race to Rewards” program earlier this month, per an emailed press release, which offers discounts when members complete “challenges,” much like competitors Sweetgreen’s Rewards and Challenges program.

Inflation is affecting how consumers engage with restaurants, and price-focused rewards could be key to easing their anxieties. Research from the August edition of PYMNTS’ Consumer Inflation Sentiment study, “Consumer Inflation Sentiment: Inflation Slowly Ebbs, but Consumer Outlook Remains Gloomy,” revealed that, in response to inflation, 78% of consumers are eating at home more. Plus, 38% reported they are opting more for lower-priced restaurants.

These decisions come as restaurant prices inflate well above the cross-category average, although still less than grocery prices. Data from the US Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) revealed that, while prices for all items were up 7.7% in October, restaurant prices increased 8.6%, and grocery prices jumped 12.4%.

Yet, Anbar considered that, while boosting rewards may be necessary in this challenging period to maintain relationships with diners that will last into the future, doing so will “create this tricky dynamic,” highlighting the tension between “what customers are willing to pay for items and what restaurants want to be able to command for a price point.”

Consequently, Jennifer Lally, vice president of marketing at Just Salad, told PYMNTS that personalization can be key to helping restaurants meet this demand for deals more effectively, getting more bang for their rewards buck.

Indeed, according to data from the March/April edition of PYMNTS’ Digital Divide series, “The Digital Divide: Regional Variations in US Food Ordering Trends and Digital Adoption,” 58% of loyalty program members cited customized coupons or discounts as a reason for using these programs at quick-service restaurants (QSRs). Plus, 55% said the same of full-service restaurants (FSRs).

“What we’re trying to do, and I think other restaurants are as well, is moving toward this exclusivity- and experience-driven programs, and really turning loyal customers into VIPs,” Lally said, “almost taking a page from the book of what airlines have done in the past.”

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